Mindset

habits, Mindset

Ulysses Contracts

During active weight loss, patients come into the office for a lot of things:  doctoring, evaluation, support, community – but one of the things they crave most at first is accountability.  Coming into the office to meet with us on a regular basis provides them with accountability.   Some of our patients keep coming month after […]

Mindset

All-Or-None

I ask all of my new patients what their barriers to success are going to be.  Some people are completely surprised by this question – they’ve never really thought about it.  Others have clearly thought a lot about it and can rattle off their obstacles like most of us can recite the Pledge of Allegiance.  

habits, Mindset

The Marshmallow Experiment

Information about the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment has come across my desk several times in the past few weeks.  That’s a sign that I need to bring it to you!   For those of you that aren’t familiar, the marshmallow experiment was performed on a group of preschoolers in 1972 and was performed by a group studying

Mindset

Food is not good or evil…

If you have ever been a patient in my office, you know that I hate to refer to foods as “bad” or “good”.  I think giving food a label like that can be very destructive.  If we refer to cookes as “bad” then when we eat one, it is all too easy to then define

Mindset

Never and Can’t

“I can’t have pasta anymore?”    “You aren’t going to let me have soda any more?”   I hear questions like this every day.  I hate them for two reasons:    First, as an Obesity Medicine doctor, I don’t make absolute rules about what my patients can and cannot have when they leave my office.  My job is

Education, Mindset

Do you hate your body?

Most women I know hate their bodies.  They talk about their bodies as though they are vile creations that need to be molded and shaped into something better.  They say things about their own body that they would never say out loud about another human being.  Most women feel a great deal of shame and

COVID-19, Mindset

Roller Coasters (COVID19)

I used to be an adrenaline junkie in my younger days.  The bigger the rollercoaster, the better.  Upside down and inside out – heck yes.  Cliff jumping – heck yes.   I even went bungee jumping once upon a time.  Unfortunately, as I have gotten older, my inner ears have decided that they don’t like

Education, Mindset

Apples & Oranges

I was talking with a group of people the other day and one of them brought up the fact that his doctor told him that he had obesity – but that the doctor had to be wrong because he exercised 4-5 times per week and lifted weights. This brought nods of agreement from several other

Mindset

Self-criticism

I am a dreamer who sees the way things could be better and I’m always striving to make those dreams a reality. The flip side of this means that I’m really, really critical of many things – myself most of all. I am constantly criticizing what I do, what I say, and who I am

Mindset

Comparing Behaviors

Doing what I do for a living is immensely gratifying. Most patients that struggle with weight & eating behaviors and have a genuine desire to improve them. It’s amazing to watch these people transform as they gain control over this part of their life that has eluded them for so long. It’s not always easy

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